The Inclusive Advantage: What Today’s Top DJs Want You to Know

When you hire a wedding DJ, you’re inviting someone into one of the most personal, emotional moments of your life. For couples who want their celebration to reflect more than trends—who want it to reflect truth—working with an inclusive wedding DJ makes a tangible difference.

Across the country, these entertainment pros are setting the standard for what it means to lead with empathy, awareness, and intention. Here’s what they want you to know.

Inclusion Begins with the First Announcement 

William “DJ Hercules” Sanchez of Hercules Entertainment in Woodbridge, VA, doesn’t wait until the dance floor opens to show his values. “Language matters. How we introduce people, how we refer to relationships—it’s all part of making everyone feel respected from the jump,” he says.

Start With the Couple, Not a Template 

Allen “Big Daddy” Walker of Big Daddy Walker Productions in Cincinnati says, “Every celebration should feel personal. We listen for what’s important to each couple—faith, culture, family dynamics—and build the vibe around that.”

Bilingual DJs Bridge More Than Language 

Carlos of Don Carlo Events in Chicago offers bilingual MC services that resonate deeply with families. “Switching between Spanish and English during emotional moments brings everyone together,” he shares. “It’s about connection, not just clarity.”

Planning Tools That Invite Participation 

Steve Anderson of BlendMasters DJ Services in Richmond, VA, empowers couples with interactive planning platforms. “They’re not just picking songs—they’re telling their story,” he says. For multicultural or interfaith couples, that level of control is invaluable.

Accessibility Starts with Sound

 DJ Kenny of Sound Storm DJ Service near St. Cloud, MN, approaches each event with inclusion in mind. “We think about hearing loss, sensory sensitivities, and physical access when setting up,” he explains. “That’s how you make everyone feel welcome.”

Visibility That Builds Trust 

Heather Laughman of HD Entertainment in Gettysburg, PA, leads the region’s only all-female DJ company. “Representation behind the booth matters,” she says. “Couples breathe easier when they see someone who gets it.” Her team is especially beloved in the LGBTQ+ wedding space.

Cultural Awareness Isn’t Optional 

Jose De Leon of LEM Entertainment in Union, NJ, ensures every wedding reflects the couple’s background. “We ask about culture and tradition from the start, not as an afterthought,” he says. “That builds trust and delivers authenticity.”

Intuition Over Ego 

Jay Ejercito (DJ JayFunk) of Momentz Productions in Chicago believes inclusive DJs balance energy with sensitivity. “It’s not about being the center of attention,” he says. “It’s about amplifying the right moments—and stepping back when needed.”

Inclusion Doesn’t Stop at the Venue

 Seth Michaels of Michaels Entertainment in Troy, MI, extends inclusion to virtual guests. “Livestreaming isn’t just a tech upgrade—it’s a way to connect loved ones who can’t be there,” he shares. His team also provides accessible equipment and adaptive layouts.

National Reach, Local Sensitivity 

Joe Bunn of Bunn DJ Company leads a team that spans Raleigh and Charlotte (NC), Charleston (SC), Richmond (VA), San Diego (CA), and Bozeman (MT). “We train every DJ to show up with awareness—so every client feels seen and respected,” he says.

Inclusion Isn’t a Trend—It’s a Standard 

From gender-inclusive language to adaptive tech, inclusive DJs are raising the bar. Whether you’re planning a bilingual wedding, seeking LGBTQ+ vendors, or honoring your cultural heritage, the right entertainment team can help you create an event where every guest feels celebrated.

About the Author:

Brian Lawrence is a trusted voice in the wedding industry, known for empowering inclusive, accessible celebrations. A marketing and web design expert, he produced the Inclusive Wedding Summit in 2025 and helps wedding pros create websites that welcome everyone.